I am a little confused over how to identify real Ragdoll kittens. While I am not really concerned about having a purebred Ragdoll, I really would like a cat with the characteristics of a Ragdoll. A breeder in the next town over has kittens for sale that are supposed to be Ragdolls, but how do I know for sure they are really what is being advertised. My husband and I really want to have a docile cat that will get along with the kids. They are still young, but are beyond the stage where they do really crazy things to the cats, but we still do not want to worry about them not getting along with the pets.